Parental Factors That Shape You

       "Five Ways in which your parents behavior has molded your personality today."

Whether your parents were your best friends or you barely knew them, your relationship with your mother and father have had an impact on who you are today.

Sigmund  Freud had said that when he theorized that our adult personality develops from early childhood experiences, an insight empirically tested by attachment theory and developmental psychology through the 20th century up until today.

Below are the Five Points that your parents behavior has impacted you:


1  If your parents made you do chores, you are likely take on tasks independently.

       If your parents constantly berated you for not making your bed, they were actually doing you a favor. Children who grow up doing chores take more responsibility at work instead of waiting for tasks to get assigned to them. They also better collaborate with their coworkers and can better empathize with others. By making them do chores like taking out the garbage, doing their own laundry etc. will make them realize that they are part of Family, part of ecosystem and part of a workplace.


2 If your parents taught you social skills, you were more likely to get a college degree and a high-paying job.

     A recent American study says that when parents taught their young kids social skills, like how to be helpful or cooperative with their peers, they were more likely to earn a college degree and have a full-time job by the age of 25. Those without social skills were more likely to drink and get arrested.


3 If your parents set high expectations for you, you probably did better in school.

     A recent study found children whose parents expected them to go to college performed better on tests than parents with low expectations. The trend occurred among both wealthy and low-income families.


4 If your mother was loving and attentive when you were a baby, you were more likely to do better in school.

   According to the recent study when parents foster loving environments around the time children are as young as three,those kids grow up to score better on exams.


5 If your parents taught you to verbalize your feelings, you are less likely to get divorced.

    A recent study reveals that if your parents told you to 'describe how  you feel', you can better communicate during adult romantic relationships. Styles of Communication are often formed by observation and direct experience of our primary role models in childhood.


                                                                                                               Source: Business Insider